You get a phone call you weren't expecting. Someone you love is gone. There was no time to prepare, no chance to say goodbye, no gradual unfolding of grief. One moment, life feels familiar. The next, everything has shifted. There is a particular kind of heartbreak that comes with sudden loss. Whether it's a friend, a partner, a parent, or someone else deeply meaningful in your life, the experience can feel disorienting, surreal, and completely overwhelming. You may find yours
If you’ve been exploring trauma therapy, you’ve likely come across EMDR and Brainspotting and maybe you’ve found yourself going down a bit of a rabbit hole trying to figure out the difference. On the surface, they can sound similar. Both are powerful, brain-based therapies. Both are designed to help you process trauma. Both go beyond traditional talk therapy. Both EMDR and brainspotting are widely used in mental health treatment and can be important steps in your broader heal
Grief is not something to “fix.” It’s something to move through, to make space for, to slowly learn how to carry. And yet, so many people come into therapy feeling like they’re doing it “wrong”, like they should be further along, less emotional, more functional. The truth is, grief isn’t a problem to solve. It’s a human response to loss. It asks for patience, compassion, and time. Not pressure. But sometimes grief doesn’t soften with time. Sometimes it stays sharp, overwhelmi