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10 Tips to Surviving Break-Ups and Grieving a Relationships


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Break-ups. The two words that can turn your world upside down faster than you can say "I love you." We've all been there, and we all know the pain, confusion, and heartache that comes with it. In this blog, we'll delve into the world of break-ups and relationship grief, offering some insights and tips on how to survive and thrive when you’re feeling blue.


We'll give you ten tips to help grieving a relationship and process this new chapter

1. Recognize your feelings are valid and normal


Break-ups can hit you like a freight train. One moment, you're planning your future together, and the next, you're sorting through a box of old love letters, wondering how things went so wrong. It's a rollercoaster of emotions, from anger and sadness to nostalgia and confusion. You might feel like you’re stuck. You might feel like you’ll never love again. Just remember, everything you are feeling is normal and part of the process.

2. It's Okay to Grieve


Grief is a natural response to losing something or someone we love. When a relationship ends, it's like a little piece of your heart has been chipped away. The grieving process is essential, so don't be afraid to cry, scream, or eat your weight in ice cream. Let your emotions flow like a river, and don't bottle them up.



3, Lean on Your Support System


Your friends and family can offer you comfort and support during this turbulent time. Don't hesitate to reach out to them, even if it's just for a chat or a shoulder to cry on. They love you and want to help, so let them be there for you.

4. Self-Care is Non-Negotiable


Break-ups can be an opportunity for personal growth. Treat yourself with care and compassion. Take long baths, read those books you've been neglecting, start a new hobby, or hit the gym. Self-care isn't just about face masks and bubble baths; it's about nourishing your body and soul. And remember, retail therapy is totally acceptable in moderation.




5. The Social Media Cleanse


The urge to check your ex's social media profiles can be strong, but it's like pouring salt in an open wound. It might be important for your to take and space from your ex-partner online so you can have time to process and heal. Block, mute, or unfollow if necessary. You'll thank yourself later. Instead, use this time to cultivate your online presence positively. Share your passions, interests, and the amazing things you're doing to reclaim your life.

6. Rediscover Yourself


Remember all those hobbies and interests you put on the back burner when you were in a relationship? Now is the time to dust them off and rediscover yourself. Embrace your quirks, strengths, and weaknesses. Take this as an opportunity to reevaluate who you are and who you want to be.

7. Remember Healing is Not Linear


Healing is a winding road with many bumps and detours. Some days, you'll feel like you're making great progress, and on others, you might take a few steps backward. That's okay; it's all part of the journey. Just keep moving forward, even if it feels like you aren’t moving at all.

8. Date Yourself


Yes, you heard me right. Go on solo dates, rediscover what makes you happy, and learn to enjoy your own company. You don't need someone else to be complete. You are already whole.

9. The Future is Bright


After a break-up, it's easy to feel like you won’t find love again, but remember, the world is filled with opportunities and new beginnings. You never know what amazing experiences and relationships are waiting just around the corner. Move at your own pace and keep your heart open.


10. Remember, You're Not Alone


Break-ups are a part of life that everyone experiences. You're not alone in your heartache, and you're certainly not alone in your journey to healing. Lean on the wisdom and support of others who have walked this path before you.



Break-ups and relationship grief are a natural part of life. They might be painful, but they also offer a chance for growth, self-discovery, and a brighter future. So, when you’re feeling low, allow yourself to grieve, lean on your support system, practice self-care, and rediscover the amazing person you are!

Learning more about how to navigate the loss of a relationship through therapy, can help you both regain your sense of self and process what you're going thought. Connecting with a therapist in San Jose, CA or San Juan, PR who can support you often benefits your own mental health as well as your help you navigate this next chapter of your life. Reach out to Living Openhearted Therapy and Wellness to book a free consultation and learn more about therapy for adults.


ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Maegan Jones, LCSW, ASW is a licensed clinical social worker in Puerto Rico and an associate social worker in California. She specializes in adults navigating difficult family dynamics, anxiety, relationship problems, and ADHD.

***The ideas, concepts, and opinions expressed in all Living Openhearted posts are intended to be used for educational purposes only. The author and publisher are not rendering medical or mental health advice of any kind, nor are intended to replace medical advice, nor to diagnose, prescribe, or treat any disease, condition, illness, or injury. Authors and publisher claim no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the material.


***If your are experiencing a mental health emergency you can call the National Suicide and Crisis Line at 988 or take them to the nearest emergency room.

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